tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post5818900778141480284..comments2012-05-02T01:25:20.004-05:00Comments on Raising me (and Me): LarsMichelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07044889007946778100noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post-51365162714003830622008-06-17T15:17:00.000-05:002008-06-17T15:17:00.000-05:00Hmmm. Your previous blogs seem resigned to him bei...Hmmm. Your previous blogs seem resigned to him being an "ex" yet this one has some fraction of hope stuck deep in between the lines. <BR/>You should probably look at that first. Do you have hope for a future with him or are you preparing for a future without him?<BR/><BR/>I'm with Care & Blaze. I also think that there is certainly enough time to take a sabbatical for yourself, either away from the group on this trip, or taking another alone later on if possible.<BR/><BR/>The choice is ultimately yours. I vote answer yourself if you are truely done or not. Answer that, and you'll have your decision.♥Joy♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/02719497811547444467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post-32614258974373980582008-06-17T11:36:00.000-05:002008-06-17T11:36:00.000-05:00I have to agree with Care on this one. There seems...I have to agree with Care on this one. There seems to be more to this. If you think there's still a chance for the relationship then this trip may be able to determine one way or the other. If you've already quit the relationship then bringing him along will just be a burden.<BR/><BR/>So, if you want to see about your feelings for him, I say take him.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14438440807974529182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post-53031564344768455832008-06-16T17:00:00.000-05:002008-06-16T17:00:00.000-05:00it depends.do you still have doubts about whether ...it depends.<BR/><BR/>do you still have doubts about whether or not you're "done?" if something goes horribly wrong will you be able to get away from each other? if something goes wonderfully right will you be able to get away to be with each other?<BR/><BR/>I am a HUGE fan of reflection and time alone. It helped me oodles when I went through my divorce a few years ago. BUT--if you think you'll spend the whole time regretting he's not there, if you think you really want the best shot y'all can get...then maybe?<BR/><BR/>And, think about your family. Do THEY want him there? If he's there will they tip-toe the whole time and whisper behind your back? Or lecture him? Or you? Alternatively, if you don't bring him will they incessantly discuss him or will they let you enjoy your time off?<BR/><BR/>Clearly, I am an analytical decision maker. I say do what your pros and cons tell you to. And more importantly what your heart tells you to.carehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869424857406810074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post-402672484522540532008-06-16T11:24:00.000-05:002008-06-16T11:24:00.000-05:00Leave him home. I don't really know you, but from ...Leave him home. I don't really know you, but from your blog it seems like the time away would do you both some good.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13783085707283000645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-835844427476344194.post-28728599594928892132008-06-16T11:03:00.000-05:002008-06-16T11:03:00.000-05:00Leave him home. LEAVE HIM HOME. Besides, you dont ...Leave him home. LEAVE HIM HOME. Besides, you dont want glorious photos to frame for your office of you and your loving husband...if indeed they wont remain framed for long.. Eh? Ask him to step out of the family pictures at dinner and stuff? That's just not tactful.. lol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com